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An update that can't begin to say enough

This weekend I move out, but that's not even the half of it - this weekend I move out of my parents' house with my husband that I acquired this year and the baby I co-produced after moving back to Singapore from New York for our child's delivery and early childhood. I guess that covers the important factual developments - apart from that I have no way of talking about it, everything, everything changing, not in a reasonable number of words anyway, and much besides I have a house to pack up and a baby to be interrupted by.

Things are excellent, if surprising, if shockingly disbelievingly good and different, far more so than I could have imagined. I just didn't think I would be one of those girls, young and married and reproducing, and the most perplexing of these being married. No, the most perplexing of all, enjoying it.

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manynames
Nov. 17th, 2012 01:41 pm (UTC)
Congratulations! I settled down and had my baby young too, and I also never thought I would be one of those people. It certainly has upsides though: it's nice to think that she'll be grown-up by the time I'm in my forties, and hopefully by then I'll actually know what I want to do and have the freedom to do it. I am not married though, and I can totally understand why that is the biggest headfuck.
retrotheque
Nov. 20th, 2012 02:26 pm (UTC)
oh wow—congratulations in all regards! that's absolutely brilliant!
leeann_marie
Nov. 23rd, 2012 02:35 pm (UTC)
wow -- congratulations!!!
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